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| The beautiful Annecy Lake |
Jodie and her family (herself, her husband and 3 school-aged children) returned to Australia after a six-month period living in the French Alps. I asked her if she would mind answering a few questions about her experience, as often I get questions from Australian families who are interested in long-term stays in France. Happily she didn’t and here is what she had to say!
What
was it that prompted you to head to France?
A desire
I had to give my children an experience of another country, culture, language
and all that that offers. I have had a love affair with France since my younger days
as a chalet girl in the French Alps.
Why
six-months?
Longer
would definitely have been better, but we could not manage this financially, as we
were unable to rent out our house back in Sydney. My husband would be returning
to work back in Sydney for 6 weeks with our son who was coming back to sit Year
8 end of year exams. Having a
teenager meant we wanted to consider his experience and his wishes to complete
Year 8 in Australia.
If there were no limitations, what length of
time would you have chosen?
Definitely
at least 1 year but ideally 2 years. As we only had 6 months, we hit the ground
running, so to speak, and made friends and connections within the community of
Menthon Saint Bernard quickly. Signing the girls up for extra curricular clubs
helped this transition into a new community and also helped their language
development.
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| View from Jodie's kitchen window |
How
did you choose the village of Menthon-Saint-Bernard near Annecy?
We chose
Lake Annecy early on in our quest for the perfect place to spend 6 months in
France. As it is a beautiful setting and close to Geneva airport and Italy, it
ticked a few boxes. For my husband and son, we needed flexibility and wanted
to be near a major airport as a number one priority. Geneva airport is very
easy to get to from Annecy. This was also important for visitors coming from
either London or Australia. After that it was a matter of which village on the
lake? So, we did lots of research and asked many questions of the families we had
already met online that lived around the lake. Looking for a home meant we were
emailing a lot of locals or foreigners who owned homes locally. They were all
very happy to share their knowledge. We also had the priority of wanting to be
as close as possible to La Clusaz ski resort for the winter ski season and Menthon-Saint-Bernard was ideally situated for that.
Can
you tell us a bit about the preparation phase? I know it was long, but what
were some of the things on your to-do list and do you have any pre-departure
hints for families who might be thinking of doing the same thing?
Firstly, once the location is decided, find a home, which isn’t always easy for long-term
rentals, but we were very lucky we came upon a lovely home that suited our
needs.
Next
thing is to approach the school. We had a choice of 2 in our village, one was
Catholic and small with only 50 children; the other public and much larger. We
ended up deciding on the Catholic school, as they were happy for our eldest to
attend even though she should have been moving up to high school at her age of
11 years.
Of
course, visa application is a process that for a 6-month stay requires a lot of
paperwork and everything from bank account details to proof of insurance and
accommodation must be thoroughly prepared for the consulate.
One tip
I have is to take as few belongings with you as you possibly can. You are
not going to the North Pole and pretty much everything that you need can be
purchased in France - this was very helpful advice from Catherine Berry that I
wish I had followed. Being a hoarder at heart meant I over packed and our
shipment back to Sydney 6 months later was probably double what it needed to
be!
As far
as paperwork, it was helpful to take a file with copies of the children’s immunization
certificates, birth certificates and any other medical reports that may be
helpful. For example, for us it was necessary to provide a doctor's certificate
to the school canteen staff for coeliac disease, as proof of my daughters need
for a gluten-free diet. We also had this translated, which was helpful for
school holiday camps.
It is
also very helpful for the children to take French lessons prior to departure. Mine started these 5 months before we left and ideally longer would be better. Their
teacher in Sydney focused on vocabulary related to meeting and greeting,
numbers, seasons, days of the week and school-related words they would come
across. I am so pleased we did as I am sure it was all less daunting for them
because of this preparation.
You
have three school-aged children. Did they attend a local French school?
Our
daughters who were aged 9 and 11 at the time we arrived in France attended the
local school. Our son of 14 did not enroll in a French school. He had very
basic French language and was happy to hang out with his parents discovering
the local area. His school back in Sydney was very flexible and gave him generous
leave from school. My husband was working from home in Menthon-Saint-Bernard, so
my son's school back in Sydney was very understanding that it was important our
son join us for this experience of a lifetime. He studied French language from
our French home twice a week with a private teacher but did not attend school
there.
Can
you tell us a bit about the girls' school experience?
The school
experience in France was challenging of course as the girls had very basic
French and were not able to make sentences. The school was quite supportive and
I was in touch with the teacher each week via email to just check in and see
how they were going. We employed a private teacher through the school's
recommendation for 2 hours a week in school time and this was very helpful for
the girls. By the time we left France the girls were having 3 private lessons a
week at their request, as they wanted to improve faster. We also employed a 16-year-old
French girl who would help the girls once a week with their homework. This was
invaluable!
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| Preparing the ski jump |
You were determined to learn some French before you left for France. How did
this help with your transition to French living?
It
really helped that I took French lessons before I arrived and like the girls it
made it easier to transition. I took weekly lessons for 2 hours a week once we
arrived in France and this was essential really as I also needed to improve my
French so I was a support for the girls. It was
all part of the journey and so rewarding to see the change in one's
understanding from month to month.
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| Autumn in Menthon-Saint-Bernard |
Can
you share with us a couple of the most memorable experiences of your time in
France? What were the most difficult aspects?
There
were so many memorable experiences as it was all so new and different to Australia.
One I will never forget was the first snowfall in our village and the children
getting their skis and ski gear on and making ski jumps in our backyard each day;
the Christmas markets in Colmar were like something from a fairytale and these
images we will never forget; dog sledding in La Clusaz for my birthday was a dream come true; hiking through the French Alps in Autumn to a refuge for a
plat du jour; collecting mushrooms in the woods near our home with French
friends and at other times foraging for chestnuts then roasting them on our
fire... I could go on and on and on!
There
were not many really difficult aspects, aside from the girls having to be
resilient and front up to school each and every day when at first they had no
idea what was being taught and would have much rather stayed home.
I do
remember some challenges like learning to put on snow chains in a blizzard;
explaining what coeliac disease was time and again in restaurants and trying to
fill the car up with diesel late at night or on the large motorways when petrol
stations were closed except for automated purchases and our Australian visa
cards were often refused at these machines - panic!
Now that the children are back in Australia, how do they view their French adventure?
They have very fond memories of our time in France and would have been happy to stay had my husband and I decided to; however, they were given a rock star welcome from their friends on their return to Sydney and they are loving that they understand EVERYTHING their teacher says. We are planning a return trip next June for a Summer Camp on the Annecy lake and they are ok with that idea.
Overall,
would you recommend the experience to other families?
Absolutely,
I loved every minute of it and miss it daily!!! Go, go go if you can and give
this experience to yourself and your children. If things were different and we
could have stayed on longer, we would not have hesitated to stay on and enjoy
more of the richness and beauty of the French culture, it would have been an easy decision. We are so
grateful for the time we had and none of us will forget this precious
experience.
Thanks so much, Jodie. Maybe that has sown a seed for other families!
As always, If you would like to read more of my family story, here is the Amazon link for a Kindle copy of 'But you are in France, Madame'.
If you would prefer a print copy, an Affiliate link is to be found in Kristin Espinasse's French word a day. A purchase here costs no more and would be so very much appreciated by us both.
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